12 years.

Apr. 26th, 2023 10:41 am
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A few friends of ours, particularly mine, had doubts that it was going to work. We knew they were wrong.

12 years ago we had the quick, legal marriage. We still consider the wedding at Musecon to be the real wedding.

But we wanted it to be legal, mostly for insurance.

Two musician friends, Isaac and John, were our witnesses. Oddly enough, they both worked on our first CD, and John on the second as well.

My intense love made the judge tear up a little. She can have that effect on people.

We had been involved for 8 months.

12 years on, we are still ridiculously in love, even more than then. We found out over lockdown that we really do like being around each other 24 hours a day. I wish I could work from home full time, rather than occasionally. I miss her when I am in the office. We love our little house, wonderful geek haven that it is.

Now I should get back to pretending to be doing something as work. I have two more years here. At that point my social security payments will be sufficient for me to quit. The idea of being home with my wife, our cats, and all of our instruments, is a marvelous one. Soon.

In the meantime, another wonderful year with the love of my life. Life could not better be.
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We're about to head off to the studio. It's a slippery mess out there today. Just cold enough so the rain yesterday turned into ice overnight.

The beasties are upset with us and have been doing everything they can to disrupt our load out to the car. Calibri laid down where Lizzie wanted to put the instruments when she brought them downstairs. Helvetica joined us at the table for breakfast (we had both finished eating). They are both running around, bouncing off the walls, then coming and demanding skritches.

They do not like bad weather, and they do not like us going out into bad weather. It's stopped the rain/snow/ice mix some hours ago, but you try explaining that to them.

Poor beasties.
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Calibri and Helvetica had a trip out today. It was their periodic inspection by the folks in the place who have the loud noisy barking things.

They were forced to go into the awful plastic cage, and then into the very cold car. They were not allowed to chase anything in the yard (they are never allowed to, we're mean like that).

Oh, and once we got there, and it took days of travel to go that mile, I had to go and manage to get the smell of the loud noisy barking things on my hands ... the nerve.

Then the very nice man poked and prodded them in all kinds of uncomfortable ways.

Then BACK into the awful plastic cage. They didn't look at us for a good hour or so. Now Helvetica is asleep next to me on the couch grumbling.
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Lizzie and I stayed home Friday. The cats had a vets appointment and Lizzie had her usual checkup. Kitties were good, albeit grumpy about the trip and the shots. They did forgive us pretty quickly.

Friday night we went to the Pizza Night at the middle school with WSPA-3. Much fun was had. We saw her at the beginning and the end (since she's like that). Then we went home and collapsed. The young man had tech crew for the school play, and then food after at Perkins (or The Club as Ed Christianson used to call it, we still miss you so much).

Friday night I decided to not sleep much, and to be wide awake at about 8:30 in the morning. This after several valiant efforts to get back to sleep. WSPA-3 had dance during the day, Jared had tech again that night and Ames British Foods had their Guy Fawkes night at a friend's farm. We ended up having lunch in the middle of the afternoon and headed out to the country to watch things burn.

Shortly after we got there Marcus made a comment about maybe having some tunes later, so putting instruments in the car was the right idea. We played a few songs, can't remember which at the moment.

I went to bed seriously early and had pretty much the same night I had on Friday. We were supposed to rehearse with Susan Sunday afternoon, but cancelled out, since Lizzie didn't have all that much better of a night. Jared had made his way over to his Grandma's after the cast party and WSPA-3 was going shopping with her Mom. So we had the house to ourselves early.

We ended up watching Silverado and then I went to bed around 8. I slept pretty well. Lizzie had had a rough day so she came to bed later.

Today Lizzie is home, the doctor needed bloodwork and had neglected to tell her that for the Friday appointment. I hauled myself out of bed and off to work, where things have been ugly all day.

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