But, remember, the furries weren't exactly give a choice about taking their marbles elsewhere. They were told their programming track was no longer welcome, but the PTB still expected them to attend the con.
Too arrogant.
I, unfortunately, have seen Jan pull BNF "I'm doing what I want" stunts. My reaction was basically, 'I can see why you might think that's appropriate, but here's what's really going to happen and why.' I got a mulish look with the 'what's really going to happen', and then a startled look and cooperation with the 'why'.
Which is why I believe if anybody had ever dealt with her in a reasonable way. Being firm about what was going to be done, while also giving her the reasons behind it, much of this drama could have been avoided.
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Date: 2010-07-06 01:46 pm (UTC)Too arrogant.
I, unfortunately, have seen Jan pull BNF "I'm doing what I want" stunts. My reaction was basically, 'I can see why you might think that's appropriate, but here's what's really going to happen and why.' I got a mulish look with the 'what's really going to happen', and then a startled look and cooperation with the 'why'.
Which is why I believe if anybody had ever dealt with her in a reasonable way. Being firm about what was going to be done, while also giving her the reasons behind it, much of this drama could have been avoided.